Last night, November 7, 2022, I had the pleasure of attending a First Monday Series event hosted by Pendle Hill .
This lecture focused on the Spiritual Gifts of our members.
Spiritual gifts are the variety of ways that we are divinely empowered to enact God’s will in the world. These gifts aren’t rewards for good behavior or badges of honor. Instead, they are a gift of God’s grace poured out, unearned, for the building of the Kingdom of Heaven. But there is a paradox in spiritual gifting, just as there is in the idea that “we are all ministers”: although the Spirit showers these gifts universally, each one is distinct.
If we are not aware of the reality that gifts of the Spirit show up differently in different people, we will naturally tend to measure others’ faithfulness by how closely their actions align with our own – not realizing, for example, that the faithful exercise of a shepherding gift, with its focus on building loving community, will never look like the faithful exercise of a prophetic gift, which courageously calls the community out of complacency and back to faithfulness. Instead, the Friend with the prophetic gift will see the shepherd as too invested in the status quo to follow God’s call, while the Friend with the shepherding gift will see the prophet as angry, disruptive, and toxic to the community. Only by understanding the nature of spiritual gifts can we appreciate that none of us can see God’s will in full. Only by coming together in our differences and creating spaces in which all gifts are welcome can our life together be a testimony to God’s wisdom, God’s righteousness, and – most of all – God’s love.
Adria Gulizia is a lawyer, mediator, teacher, and mother.
She carries a concern for how Friends’ traditional faith and practice translate into an increasingly unstable, atomized, and uncertain world. In her ministry activities and in her daily life, Adria is passionate about inviting all into deeper relationship with the Spirit of Christ, which spoke so strongly to early Friends and continues to speak today. She is a member of Chatham-Summit Monthly Meeting (New York Yearly Meeting), the Friends of Jesus Fellowship, and the Board of Advisors of Earlham School of Religion, for which she will serve as clerk starting in Fall 2022. She has facilitated workshops on a variety of topics, including spiritual gifts, listening as a practice of pastoral care, and Friends’ traditional commitment to the Lamb’s War.
Adria’s writing has been published by Friends Journal, Pendle Hill Pamphlets, and Illuminate, a Bible study curriculum written by and for Friends. Her blog, “In the Shadow of Babylon,” can be found at shadowofbabylon.com.